Sunday, March 30, 2014

If i don't like, it's a sin?

When i 1st started Facebook back in 2007, its just simply because a friend of mine convince me that FB is the "IN THING" at that moment. So i asked her "apa yang special sangat FB tu?", she replied, "best tau nina, boleh bagi burger, beer, ice cream kt ko. Join la FB!"

Mata terbeliak, otak berpikir, apa kejadah nya aku nak dapat burger dalam internet ni? So, wat the heck masa tu, my friend kata still x ramai join FB, so she needs friends in it. Masa tu famous MySpace and Friendster. Itupun aku x active sangat in those 2 social networks. Call me anti-social kui kui kui....

Maka that's the year i started FB, then tiap2 saat, minit, jam, hari, minggu, bulan melekat depan PC sebab addicted to giving virtual items. THAT's IT! 

Other than that, ai get to see updates from my old long time friends since primary school, to secondary school, to my ex-colleagues, to my ex-band mates. 

I love to see their photos, their status updates, their check-ins. Basically its all GOOD.

Lepas tu, bila FB dah become more and more famous, and millions of Malaysians are on FB, i got bored. I think most of my friends, felt the same also, sebab diorang dah kurang posting gambar and update their whereabouts or their minds or anything la. So the bonding tu i rasa dah kurang. 

I get to see them only online saja. Kadang2 kalau masa mengizinkan, me and my friends will surely meetup for lunches or dinner or supper at mamak Janggut. Ya la, nak arrange timing ngan ai is a bit susah, sebab i ni keje ikut time London. Orang baru balik keje petang, ai baru nak pegi keje. Orang tido, ai melalak. Orang lain pegi keje pagi, ai tido. So susah nk arrange timing with me. 

To make it worst (ai rasa la ya), bila ramai yang bermuka2 dalam FB. Tambah2 lagi bila kita tak sependapat dalam hal hal politiks. That's when ai rasa betul2 menyampah nak login FB. It seems like ramai sangat yang nak menjadi YANG BERHORMAT. Pfffttttt....

That's when i feel like i better shut my mouth, cos karang aku bukak mulut kang, ada je yang membangkang. FYI, mulut ai ni memang berbisa laser sikit. Takut ada yang berkecil hati, lebih baik ku diam sahaja.

Lepas tu, ramai yang jadik ustaz dan ustazah. Ehehe.... ai harap korang2 yang baca ni, jangan kecil hati ya, sebab memang bagus kalau anda semua share ayat2 hadis, ayat2 peringatan pasal solat, pasal hati, pasal jaga mulut, pasal jaga jari-jarian menaip, tapi yang betul2 tak leh blah tu is bila uolls share gambar gambar Kaabah, ya subhanallah, memang cantik, memang indah. Tapi jadik tak best bila ada caption dalam gambar KAABAH tu, contoh la ya, "LIKE JIKA KAABAH itu CANTIK, COMMENT JIKA KAABAH itu INDAH".... (ini sumer contoh2 caption tau!)....

So persoalan nya, kalau aku TAK LIKE or TAK COMMENT, aku berdosa ke? Benda ni dah jadik persoalan dalam kepala otak minda ku sampai terbawa2 ke tido. Selalu bertanya, "eh, OK ke ha kalau aku tak like gambar tu? Rasa berdosa pulak kalau tak like tak comment!".....

THING IS, I love to just keep my mouth (or in this case, my mind) SHUT! Tak kisah la like/comment kat gambar kaabah ke, gambar selfie ko ke, gambar makanan ko makan kat restaurant hebat tu ke, gambar ko pegi shopping ke, kalau ai rasa ai like, ai click LIKE. Kalau ai rasa nak comment, ai akan comment. TAPI selalunya memang jarang la. 

Same goes with my stuffs i post on FB or twitter or instagram or even this blog. Only God knows if this post is being read by people. Ntah2 aku sahaja kot yang membaca. I don't mind if you don't like/comment my stuffs on either my social network. Really, seriously I DON'T MIND. No need to like anything that i post just because i am one of your network friends. 

Again, please STAHP sharing pictures or messages yang boleh mengelirukan paler otak. Kalau nak share, share benda2 yang sahih, yang benar, yang ikhlas. 

xoxo

Nota kaki:
Dulu2 masa kecik2 bila gi visit rumah saudara mara or rumah member2 arwah daddy dulu, mesti kita selalu cari ALBUM GAMBAR. Tengok satu persatu. Teliti dan bertanya kat mana ni, dengan siapa ni dan sebagainya.  Dari gambar black & white ke gambar tu jadik kaler yang cantik. That was around 90s laaa ya. Sama gak kalau kawan2 or saudara mara datang umah, mereka mesti carik photo album. Selalunya tak payah carik la, terang2 photo album tu terletak betul2 bawah cermin coffee table tengah2 alam living hall rumah. 

Either i tengok orang nyer photo album or ai tengok my own photo album, i am HAPPY!

Tapi bila sekarang aku post gambar, adaaaaa je yang tak kena. Kadang2 rasa serba salah should i post or not my photos. Kang aku post, orang kata aku berlagak, aku riak. Padahal, ai just wana keep my friends and family updated of what/how i am NOW. I want my friends and family to be happy for me, cos i am!! 

Sigh....


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4 March 2014

Saya baru belajar guna photoshop. 
Just to crop my pic and put on another background je!
Almaklum la, rumah saya background tak cantik!
More ootds coming up soon....

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